Ramadan: How to deal with hypocrites and backbiters?

You need to find your own way to deal with them. For me, I treat them as a joke and try to laugh it off. If you have anyone else in your family who sees this going on as well you can joke with them about it and it can put it in perspective. If they are actually harming you in any way, socially, mentally, physically, etc. then I suggest you confront them about it with someone else and they will feel trapped and will most likely try to undo what they have done if you press if on them.